2 thoughts on “Tenderness, love, and sex

  1. I’m glad you shared this thought. A few years ago I was talking with a woman who was in RCIA preparing to enter the Catholic Church. She was struggling with some questions and also was in the throes of a fight against ovarian cancer. She had shared that she was living with a man but was chaste because of her medical condition. She invited me to have lunch with her and talk. She expressed the prevailing “love is love” mantra and asked why homosexual relations were not permissible. I experienced a Holy Spirit moment and replied with the question: “Does every love relationship need to be expressed sexually?” She didn’t say any more than “Oh.” The way you express your answer gives me an extension which would be understandable by someone not facing a health crisis.

    1. Yours was a good response. “Love is love” is a disingenuous slogan that doesn’t at all address the question, which is this: What kind of love is designed by nature to be expressed sexually?

      Before the great blindness of the sexual revolution, everyone knew the answer to this.

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